The July contest #2 by sduttaskitchen: Overcome the fear of failure!

Our life is full of different moments and memories, and failure is also part of the journey of our life which nobody can escape. Sometimes it can show in our private life, sometimes in public eye. Therefore what matter the most is how a person can handle it very, because it is good management of failure that open road to success.

In this life which we are living so, failure do always be shown than success. Success is very sweet and enjoyable, but it doesn't comes every day. Failure is everywhere like sunlight. The real problem is not when a person fail, it's how the person manage the failure that lands on his hand.

Honestly, many people fear failure than any other thing. Some people even hide their face when they fail, they will feel really shameful. But if you look it the other way round, the management of failure is the biggest challenge which really bothers human beings. Because failure can test your mind, your patience, your strength, and even your faith.

Failed Exam👉🏻
	👈🏻Overcoming the failure

For example, if a person fail exam, it doesn't mean the person is illiterate. Sometimes it's a condition, sometimes mistake. But how the person will handle it will determine whether he or she will rise again or he will remain at that level. That's why I say that management of failure is the real challenge. If you can manage it , you will conquer life.

Yes o, failure doesn't respect any place or location. It can come up both indoor and outdoor. Let me break it down.

Indoor failure: This one is the type of failure which happens inside your personal life. It can be, that you try to cook a soup, then unfortunately the soup burn. Or you try to save money, but every time, you often touch the savings. Or even relationship issues, like you trying to make it work, but it doesn't. All these are indoor failure because it's inside your private life that it happens.

Outdoor failure: This one is the type which everybody can see. Like a person that plays football match, then you miss penalty. Or you were doing business in the market, you invest money, but the business collapse. Or you contest for an election, but you didn't win. All these are outdoor failure because i public always witness it.

So failure can manifest both indoor and outdoor. Sometimes it's the indoor failure that is more painful because it's only you that carries the burden inside your heart. Outdoor failure can makes a person to be shameful because people will be looking at you and saying all sorts of things. But whether it's indoor or outdoor, all are still failure, and it's how you manage it matters the most.

• Accept the reality: First thing to do when failure comes is that, you shouldn't deny your failure or try to claim that you didn't fail. Accept it with clear mind. If you don't accept i don't think you will be able to move forward ahead.

• Learn from the mistake: Honestly, every failure carries their lesson. If you fail exam, check if you didn't read well or there were point or topics that you skipped. If your business collapse, check what you did wrong. Try to learn from it so that you won't just
  repeat it again.

• Stay positive: Failure always try to make a person think negative. But if you keep positive mindset, you could see hope. It's hope that will push you to try again.

• Seek advice: Sometimes you won't be able to handle failure all alone. So talk to people that have gone through the same thing. Their advice might open your eye.

• Try again: Don't allow failure to lock your destiny. If you fail once, try again. If you fail twice, try again. It's persistence that bring success.

• Pray and believe: Prayer is very important. When you fail, pray to God, believe that a better days is ahead. Faith can give you and me strength to continue.

• Building resilience: However, resilience is that ability or power that one has to bounce back. If you are resilient enough, failure won't break you. You will always rise again after the downfall.

So in all, failure is part of life. It can be indoor, or outdoor. But the real challenge is to know how to manage it. If you can accept your failure, learn from it, and stay positive, also seek some advice from people then try again, pray to God, and build your resilience, you will surely overcome failure. This life is not always smooth as we expect, but the way you handle the rough side will determine your success.

_{All shown pictures are mine shoot on Tecno spark30.}

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